Yes I know, we’ve traveled down that road more than any of us care to admit. This is a slightly different route and definitely an interesting ride.

On Season Four’s Reunion Show, filmed on 1/31/09 Andy wraps up the Jay Photoglou conversation.
Andy: “You are single right now?”
Gretchen: “Yes.”
Andy: “This man who has been calling Tamra is not your boyfriend?”
Gretchen said no.
Vicki: “Do you sleep with him?”
Gretchen: “No.”

So did I mention there was a fork in the road?? You can either go with  I got your back Jay, or veer to the left towards I’m always the victim..because it appears taking the high road isn’t an option. Careful with your decision, all it takes is one wrong turn and you could end up lost within your own little world too.

And isn’t it so typical to send a smart a** message to someone you claim had threatened your life less than 24 hours earlier?  Just saying…

*I just came across something else rather interesting, check back later… (no traveling involved )

It has been brought to my attention on more than one occasion that  ______________.com has implied, referred to and/or stated that this website belongs to Jay Photoglou.

To avoid any further confusion, no, this is not his site. Not now. Not ever. The information is not only misleading and incorrect, it also raises question about their overall credibility.

Filling in the blanks with inaccurate and misleading statements may make for a better read, but it doesn’t change the truth. Ever.
O.K. done ranting!

On another note, check back later tonight or tomorrow….
WOW!!

Judge Orders Gretchen Rossi To Court To Disclose Finances

How much are you worth Gretchen Rossi?
The world will soon find out, after a judge in Newport Beach, California, ordered the Real Housewife of Orange County to appear in court next month to provide information about her finances and assets.

As RadarOnline.com reported last week, Rossi’s disputed ex Jay Photoglou was awarded $18,900.00 in legal fees connected to a restraining order case filed against him by the reality star last year. A judge dismissed the case and Photoglou won the right to seek attorney’s fees and costs to fight the order. Read full story at RadarOnline.com

• According to Beitzel’s trust, which was amended a month before his death, Rossi was awarded $2,500,000 — some of which she collected from Beitzel’s life insurance policy. Gretchen, however continues to deny that she has received any money.

Gretchen Rossi Sued For Slander And Libel
By Ex Boyfriend Jay Photoglou

“The drama from Bravo’s Real Housewives of Orange County just spilled over from TV to the courtroom. RadarOnline.com has learned exclusively that Jay Photoglou is suing Gretchen Rossi on Friday, charging her with libel and slander and five other counts.

It all stems from Rossi denying romantic involvement with Jay, as she was depicted as the fiancé of another man during the first season of her reality TV show.

Photoglou charges Rossi with damaging his reputation by calling him a liar, a drunk and a thief and is demanding punitive damages in the lawsuit. The lawsuit charges Rossi with spreading lies in published interviews, in emails to private individuals and members of the media….”

RadarOnline.com has full story

I probably would have gone with a shade lighter, or just hid my hand all together…but that’s just me.

It looks like the cameras may have gotten a little too close, drawing the attention away from the make-up being showcased to the what appeared to be a band aid on Gretchen’s left ring finger. Maybe it was better than the alternative??

Another “band aid” photo from a post dated September 8, 2009.

“Just because you pop a child out between your legs that doesn’t give you the God right to know how to parent.”
~Gretchen Rossi

VIDEO NO LONGER AVAILABLE!

This is one of the most powerful and telling statements I have ever heard.
It spoke volumes of:
class
intent
doubt
ethics
loyalty
morals
respect
motives
integrity
character
deception
It left me speechless…wondering if this same person has ever looked
her boyfriend dead in the eye and talked to him about being a parent …wondering if she realized she had just said more about herself in one sentence than she could ever say in all her blogs…..wondering if she
knew when she said, ‘at the end of the day people would figure it out
for themselves’…that day would be so soon.

Originally posted 9/11/09

A picture is worth a thousand words…

This picture was taken in October 2008, in Newport Beach CA. It was a few days before Gretchen Rossi’s Birthday party. Gretchen was trying out costumes for Halloween to see people’s reactions to them. The day this picture was taken was the first time Gretchen had met Jim and Alexis Bellino. In this picture you can clearly see (as Alexis did) the ring finger tattoo “Gretchen”on Jay Photoglou’s finger. Alexis asked Gretchen why she was still wearing her engagement ring and about her ring finger tattoo “Jay” as well. Gretchen and Alexis sat for nearly 45 minutes while Gretchen explained her role on the show and answered Alexis’ questions. Gretchen told Alexis she was Jeff Beitzel’s caregiver.

Click here for the latest on Gretchen Rossi and Jay Photoglou. View court documents, pictures, e-mails, police reports and more!

Gretchen confides on her latest blog entry on BravoTV that she struggles with her blog each week because stories are often misconstrued. She often ends up with lengthy entries just so she is able to explain herself, which I’m sure is a task in itself. Why not do a video blog? Not only is it to the point, it could it save hours of time precious time! Additionally, it would be much harder to misconstrue something that is documented on video. Of course, there is always the option of adding a few sentences here and there as well.

Ex boyfriend? I have to admit this video is a little confusing. In this official police report, dated February 11th…11 days after the above video was taped, Jay Photoglou is listed as Gretchen Rossi’s boyfriend…

In this court document, Gretchen refers to Jeff Beitzel as to her current “situation.” Who calls a relationship a situation?

Huh?

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VIDEO NO LONGER AVAILABLE
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If the pictures were stolen, wouldn’t they have been removed after this letter and this letter were issued by Gretchen’s attorneys?

“I’m just so confused and I was living it.”
~Gretchen Rossi

Uh sorry, but how do you think we feel…
Maybe video blogs aren’t for everyone!