It has been brought to my attention on more than one occasion that  ______________.com has implied, referred to and/or stated that this website belongs to Jay Photoglou.

To avoid any further confusion, no, this is not his site. Not now. Not ever. The information is not only misleading and incorrect, it also raises question about their overall credibility.

Filling in the blanks with inaccurate and misleading statements may make for a better read, but it doesn’t change the truth. Ever.
O.K. done ranting!

On another note, check back later tonight or tomorrow….
WOW!!

Judge Orders Gretchen Rossi To Court To Disclose Finances

How much are you worth Gretchen Rossi?
The world will soon find out, after a judge in Newport Beach, California, ordered the Real Housewife of Orange County to appear in court next month to provide information about her finances and assets.

As RadarOnline.com reported last week, Rossi’s disputed ex Jay Photoglou was awarded $18,900.00 in legal fees connected to a restraining order case filed against him by the reality star last year. A judge dismissed the case and Photoglou won the right to seek attorney’s fees and costs to fight the order. Read full story at RadarOnline.com

• According to Beitzel’s trust, which was amended a month before his death, Rossi was awarded $2,500,000 — some of which she collected from Beitzel’s life insurance policy. Gretchen, however continues to deny that she has received any money.

Gretchen Rossi Sued For Slander And Libel
By Ex Boyfriend Jay Photoglou

“The drama from Bravo’s Real Housewives of Orange County just spilled over from TV to the courtroom. RadarOnline.com has learned exclusively that Jay Photoglou is suing Gretchen Rossi on Friday, charging her with libel and slander and five other counts.

It all stems from Rossi denying romantic involvement with Jay, as she was depicted as the fiancé of another man during the first season of her reality TV show.

Photoglou charges Rossi with damaging his reputation by calling him a liar, a drunk and a thief and is demanding punitive damages in the lawsuit. The lawsuit charges Rossi with spreading lies in published interviews, in emails to private individuals and members of the media….”

RadarOnline.com has full story

I probably would have gone with a shade lighter, or just hid my hand all together…but that’s just me.

It looks like the cameras may have gotten a little too close, drawing the attention away from the make-up being showcased to the what appeared to be a band aid on Gretchen’s left ring finger. Maybe it was better than the alternative??

Another “band aid” photo from a post dated September 8, 2009.

“Just because you pop a child out between your legs that doesn’t give you the God right to know how to parent.”
~Gretchen Rossi

VIDEO NO LONGER AVAILABLE!

This is one of the most powerful and telling statements I have ever heard.
It spoke volumes of:
class
intent
doubt
ethics
loyalty
morals
respect
motives
integrity
character
deception
It left me speechless…wondering if this same person has ever looked
her boyfriend dead in the eye and talked to him about being a parent …wondering if she realized she had just said more about herself in one sentence than she could ever say in all her blogs…..wondering if she
knew when she said, ‘at the end of the day people would figure it out
for themselves’…that day would be so soon.

Originally posted 9/11/09

A picture is worth a thousand words…

This picture was taken in October 2008, in Newport Beach CA. It was a few days before Gretchen Rossi’s Birthday party. Gretchen was trying out costumes for Halloween to see people’s reactions to them. The day this picture was taken was the first time Gretchen had met Jim and Alexis Bellino. In this picture you can clearly see (as Alexis did) the ring finger tattoo “Gretchen”on Jay Photoglou’s finger. Alexis asked Gretchen why she was still wearing her engagement ring and about her ring finger tattoo “Jay” as well. Gretchen and Alexis sat for nearly 45 minutes while Gretchen explained her role on the show and answered Alexis’ questions. Gretchen told Alexis she was Jeff Beitzel’s caregiver.

Click here for the latest on Gretchen Rossi and Jay Photoglou. View court documents, pictures, e-mails, police reports and more!

Gretchen confides on her latest blog entry on BravoTV that she struggles with her blog each week because stories are often misconstrued. She often ends up with lengthy entries just so she is able to explain herself, which I’m sure is a task in itself. Why not do a video blog? Not only is it to the point, it could it save hours of time precious time! Additionally, it would be much harder to misconstrue something that is documented on video. Of course, there is always the option of adding a few sentences here and there as well.

Ex boyfriend? I have to admit this video is a little confusing. In this official police report, dated February 11th…11 days after the above video was taped, Jay Photoglou is listed as Gretchen Rossi’s boyfriend…

In this court document, Gretchen refers to Jeff Beitzel as to her current “situation.” Who calls a relationship a situation?

Huh?

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If the pictures were stolen, wouldn’t they have been removed after this letter and this letter were issued by Gretchen’s attorneys?

“I’m just so confused and I was living it.”
~Gretchen Rossi

Uh sorry, but how do you think we feel…
Maybe video blogs aren’t for everyone!

I have so much to say about this, but I really think it is one of times that less is better.

A few thoughts…
I have to commend Lynne for a few things. The first being her reaction to Gretchen’s “intervention” with Alexa on last weeks episode. That was the first time I have seen her stand up to Gretchen and speak her mind. Generally Lynne is so passive and it clearly took Gretchen off guard as well. Lynne had went and got all “Tamra-esque,” on her (isn’t it always Tamra’s fault?) The second is the calmness Lynne maintained. Despite her “Tamra-esque” response, Gretchen got off pretty easy! I don’t know many parents that would have been able to do the same.
You. Just. Do. Not. Do. That. Ever.

The following is a random paragraph I copied from Gretchen’s blog on Bravo TV.

“I would never want something to happen to a kid just because I was more concerned about not hurting my friend’s feelings. To me that is what real friends do, they are honest and real, and they are concerned they will approach you out of love. If they are doing it out of ill will or bad intentions that is another thing, but I know Lynne and Frank knew where we were coming from and what our intentions were.”

Aside from the fact I believe she clearly crossed the line between a parent and their child, I am curious why anyone that was honest, real and concerned about someone, especially a “depressed” teenager would address those concerns on national television? Is that what a real friend does?

So what were Gretchen’s true intentions? Would ill will or bad intentions be equivalent to using a situation someone may or may not be going through as a platform to make themselves look better? My thought is and always has been; a true intention or gesture has not come from your heart freely if there are any attachments. If you can’t do it without talking about it, it really has no value.

It’s one thing to write a four page blog justifying your actions and discussing the other “wives,” they signed up for this. It’s another thing when you talk about their kids. To read it, it really is mind blowing to think that someone with a degree in psychology would believe this to be morally or ethically O.K.